How Having a Strong Inner Game Will Change Your Life

Have you ever had great success in one venue, maybe house parties, but were unable to succeed with women you met other places, like perhaps night clubs?

Often it is easier for you to be cool and social in one venue than another because that is your `comfort zone`.  You know what to say, how to say it, and who to say it too when you are in a place you are familiar or comfortable in.

But outside of that zone, you are toast! This is because we often use certain external techniques and social skills that do not really apply to every venue we might find ourselves in. When you have deep set beliefs that you are a high status male, and that no matter where you are, that you are among the elite males, then all these anxieties and problems fall away.

How? Because your strength and resolves makes other people change THEIR mode of behavior to suit yours.

Bill Clinton has game. I can’t explain it but in most circles, Bill Clinton is the man. It doesn’t matter if he is at a Washington political party or a backyard BBQ. He just gets women to fall over him.

If Bill Clinton walked into a raging rock concert or hip hop concert, this one man, would have everyone in a completely different frame of mind, all begging to appease HIS way of interaction. The people bend to him because he has inner game.

Inner Game Positively Influences Your Body Language

  • Fifty-five percent of the communications signals we send results from how others see us.
  • Thirty-eight percent flows from the way they hear us
  • Seven percent comes from our words

 

Having a solid Inner Game allows your body language to accurately communicate with those around you. This is called `congruence`, when your words are matched by your attitude and body language. If you say Super Man things to a woman, but feel like Clark Kent inside, and she WILL know, and you will get nowhere with her.

Inner Game Improves Every Aspect Of Your Life, Making You More Attractive.

Inner Game development need not be limited to confidence with women. It can apply to every aspect of your life in general.

You can rethink previous ideas, like you’ll never be able to get into a good college, or you’ll never make a good XYZ and then your subconscious will begin helping you to change so that these things can happen. What is best is that being successful in life ( and I don’t mean being rich ) will make you doubly attractive to women, and that will raise your confidence even more. It is cyclical.

Not learning proper Inner Game techniques can lead to ALOT of frustration AND embarrassment too using seduction tactics that seem incongruent. Without Inner Game, no amount of “negging”, or “cocky funny” will allow you to have lasting success with women.

In other words, start with the basics … improve your self confidence and improve your art of small talk and you’d be surprised just how drastically all aspects of your life will change.

No not just your love life but everything including your job, how much money you make and how everyone you meet treats you.

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Building Your Confidence in Dating Women

When it comes to dating or even seducing a woman, confidence is vital.

Let’s be real, confidence is the key to success with anything you do in life … relationships, your career, getting a raise. Haven’t you ever seen a really hot girl with some average guy and wondered how in the hell he got her? Self confidence!

Women often equate “self confidence” with the ability to be successful. While many men believe that women look for successful men because they’re likely to make more money, that’s simply not true.

While it’s a given, women actually look for successful men because they’re more likely to be satisfied. So you may be wondering what a man being satisfied has to do with anything. Let me explain. You see, women know that men who are satisfied with themselves are less likely to go out looking for someone to satisfy them and are more stable.

And in a relationship that means a man will be less likely to cheat, or change jobs frequently or get himself into any number of other compromising situations. Remember that most women are looking for a man who will be their partner as well as their lover.

Not only do they want a partner when it comes to things like companionship, decision-making and finances, but in the bedroom, as well. In order to effectively seduce a woman you must make her feel as though you’re both equals.

When it comes to confidence, it seems there are two kinds of people – those who have it and others who simply don’t. Although on the surface this may be true, everyone has the potential to be “self confident”, or motivated if you would like to call it.

Take heart in knowing that you’re a good person, smart, funny, good at your job, loving, considerate or whatever else you find to be positive character traits that you have. Be comforted to know that NOT all women are looking for a CEO or brain surgeon. They just want a man who’s confident with who he is, what he knows and what he has to offer to a relationship with them!